Public Reply, To Baseless Accusations
After much deliberation our college finally decided to allow “Image Processing” to approximately 20 interested students. Image processing is a Technical field that has a very wide usage in technical and non-technical fields, and is in focus in a multitude of defense related applications & civilian applications as a whole a very enlightening subject that requires huge computational power thus an ideal field for computer-science majors. There goes the interesting part of the issue.
Now comes a part that is now involving multitude of accusations from many of my fellow-friends due to arising of a complex situation. The final decision of taking this elective has been just over one week or so old, it finalized when we submitted an application to the college on July 30,2010 ( a Friday). We had to painstakingly spend the whole day in college as it was an alternate day between trainings… and we were asked to come 5 days later to know the result ( on a Wednesday). We spent the 5 days in between with much anxiety over whether we would finally get it. We were told we would require minimum of 15 students & we had some 22 so we were relieved on that ground, that we wont be rejected outright… yet the final decision was in authority’s hands. On arriving at that Wednesday… we were informed that our dream had paid off! We chose to relish the dream.. we chose to keep silent and enjoy that we have achieved what we dreamt. We dreamt of future where we decide to trace our own path… and not on the basis of a general trend, this has been a first step.
This is where there is an accusation, some people are saying we betrayed them… I don’t see where! We dreamt of getting a subject, we went forward to apply for it, we got it…. we had to waste nearly 7 of the off days in between the industrial training @ sector 5 working with official docs & whims. Unlike many others…. we did not scare off people who intended to take some other electives, namely there was publicized scaring off on the part of the friends who wanted an elective other than distributed database. And now we are being called backstabbers… infact we talk to people up front — we never face their backs…( for the record there was not even one incident we asked a person twice when the person said she/he wants a different elective).. however if someone would try to pass off jokingly made remarks as the same it would only show them the mirror!
OK Honorable men, there’s something that you missed… whenever you have a dream… you need to work on that dream… simply going about scaring people off their path doesn’t help anyone or lead to anything other than blaming others who had worked for their own future as traitors & backstabbers etc!!
After a day of making and breaking of a dream ( Bipul say’s so), I feel quite blunt.Pardon me if I am wrong, I have never accused anyone. Specially the udayan and arunabha part, they are far away from accusation. I never called u guys traitors. As u are one of my closest friend, I came to you and joked a little but never imagined it would grow as an outburst.( Tor sathei only yaarki merechilam, Udayan ar arunabha ke niye ami ekta kothao bolini… but tui oder ki bolechis jani na.. ami kintu just tor sathei yaarki merechilam) .. U guys succeeded to elect image processing, probably what we have not. U deserve a great clap from me not accusation. Forget the accusation part, it was a mere joke.never thought u have dearth of humor in mind. In future I will be more careful about choosing my words and joking with you. Thank You!
are dhot… tor sathe udo-r ektu khit ache jani,heard from dari et all… but people did tell me that pom should not have said this to you, but oder boleochilam je pom was saying that in a joking mood(however i did not find any joke when u said that), because i know u. Actually i heard ki, u said…” arunavor theke eta asa korini”…” udayan er bepare kichu bolar nei” …”bipul er theke to aroi expect kori ni” … and u did come around and say that “i betrayed you… and i applied in the middle of 6th sem” , certainly that’s not a flattery or a joke!… and if it’s not an accusation then define what’s an accusation!
@Outburst:: this is not an outburst, i don’t believe in them, but there had been attempts to scare away people, fact is u dont know! BTW this post was not directed to you… or it’s a general exression of triumph as udayan or arunavo or u define! But I do believe that college could have started a 3rd elective… but why it did not is not of my knowledge! you were in meeting you know better! why else do we call the subjects electives!
” arunavor theke eta asa korini”…” udayan er bepare kichu bolar nei” …”bipul er theke to aroi expect kori ni” .. ami eta kakhonoi bolini……
Tirtha told me ki mam bolechhe ora 6th sem-er somoy application diyeche….Ami bollam e rokom hole bipul ontoto amake janato.. Bakider theke expect na-o kora jay!… Ar for your info. ami betray word tai use korini… ami toke bolechhilam .. tor theke eta expect korini…. However light mood-ei bolechilam….. Anyways… Forget it! …
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actually… overall beparta jerom daralo… is a complex and convoluted… and like u were reacting to ‘heard from’ comments.. i too did the same… tirtha ke dhore ekta kan chapati diyo to… ulto palto kotha bole… i have already told u we have submitted the app on 31st July! actually u used both words… betray and not expect… u might have done that unknowingly in the spur of the moment!
But i don’t hold any err against u… you are a fellow friend.. and even if u did say betray… it does not get to some — ‘ man hanir mamla’, actually i had totally ignore-karaoed the incident!
But now the situation is like… u guys are sad… and really I can’t feel happy… because were expectant about the OS as much as we were about image proc! and anything i say fro consolation would be like an insult… so I’d like to leave u alone for a while!